Monday, May 25, 2009

All about my DAD


                       Usually there is a common thought that boys would not move close to their dad as they do with their mom,but in my case its just the opposite.I think the only friend whom i cherish right from my kinder garden is my
DAD.
                            About his sense of humour,no matter,what mind set you are in,if you are with my dad you will surely get rid of your worries and will be laughing all the time.And about the confidence that he delivers in his speech,at times i had thought he would have been a great orator if he had tried to be so.To be poetic,even a person who is about to commit suicide would give up his idea and gain confidence to face life,on hearing his words.Whenever i say i can't do this,he would convince me to that extent that even he can't stop me from doing that.
                                He is about 30 years elder than me,but still he can do things faster than me,to be honest except studying for exams he does all my works.But at times it annoys me.It would project me as a villain to the outsiders as they see my dad doing all my works.I had begged him lot of times to stay away from my works,but he hadn't listened to me yet.Ofcourse i can't expect him to obey my words.
                                 He cares a lot for me,,ofcourse every dad will care for his son.But this is something exceptional,that i get irritated sometimes.I am driving two wheelers since my seventh std and now am a license holder of both four and two wheelers,but still i have to beg him each time to get the keys.At times i have even been appreciated of my driving by my friends and relatives,but still he is not able to stay peaceful giving me the bike.If i ask him a two wheeler he would say that he will drop me even if the destination is at 100km.But except this vehicle issue,he had all ways given me whatever i wanted at the respective ages.To my memory i haven't cried that i didn't get what i have desired .
                                 To talk about our relation,i use to share everything with my dad,even about girls,about professors with whom i am at logger heads.He always suggests me a solution but at times it had failed too.LOL!!.Its not that only i share my thoughts,he too shares everything what happens in his workplace.At times my mom use to scold him for sharing things to me ,which are not apt to my age,such as his financial issues etc.
                                     And finally i don't want to conclude that he is the perfect definition of Dad,But i am blessed and gifted to be his son.:)        

Wednesday, May 20, 2009

L o v e




            To talk about love,i would say that its a mirracle.It confers you a mind set to throw every one,to hold your lovers hand.How does this happen?Whats the criteria to be attracted to a girl?The first and foremost answer would be her beauty,that u find her more colourful than the top heroine of current scenario,but is that the only reason to be attracted?definitely not.Ofcourse it might be one of the reasons.But the reasons that make you to run behind her amidst losing ur dignity,being insulted,etc??Probably the answer would be when you happen to see her with qualities that are noble to you,when you find that person distinct from the rest,when she bestows affection that u can compare with your mom.But this happens only if u r a friend of her.This is how a Friendship Between a Boy And a Girl Blooms Into Luv.
   
                                        Is that all over about lovers of current scenario??Definitely not.I do agree that we find lovers belonging to the above category.But still u can't call it a magic when u just choose a girl who suits ur character.U can call it so only if u r atttracted to girl and can't resist yourself from thinking about her all the time,even if you find her arrogant,adament and all sorts of negative qualities that doesn't suits you.You start chanting that she is not good,she is not respecting you,she is hurting you all the time and she can never be your match,but still you think about her,imagine her as your wife,Stare at her when she crosses you.That's Love.
             At times you are even forced to turn to the other side when she crosses you,But some force makes you to have a look at her.After that you worry telling yourself "why did you do so?!!"
                  To talk about lovers,i always admire pairs sharing thier joy,feeelings,etc.But i have some exceptions too.I don't encourage pairs of age group 15 to 19 or 20.Its not because that i didn't get a girl yet.LOL.This is the age that You start blooming,crushes arise in your mind.You have a thirst to find a girl for you.So obviously you will be rushing to fall in love.You will be wasting your time chasing girls,unfortunately girls are also expected to have the same feel,so its not a mirracle if u get a girl as early as when you are 19 or below,but have you ever thought whether this love will last until u attain the age to marry.Most love stories starting at this age would unfortunately end up in misery.So when u fall in love make sure that you hold her hand forever!!!